Don't scare to talk, althought it may be stuck when you talk to another one, but you try to say it slowly, it will be suceed when you try. It's useful to tell your feeling than giggle, it is important to tell your thought than make a joke.
Don't scare to face to face, and don't scare nothing to talk. Let the girl know you pay attention to her, Not always wait the response from another her, she also need to know how you feel, and know who you are
Don't scare to show yourself, you just don't show off, over state, you share everyone the result you live serious everyday, even a little bit, you must express it in confidence, you don't scare to hide it.
Don't scare to talk to the girl, you just need to care for the girl in heart, and try to express your emotion in reality, not artificial, not fake, just describe your feeling, you don't need to decorate and have dramatic effect.
Not enough smart, not enough handsome, not enough money, not enough humor, it doesn't matter, you just need to correct your fault step by step in confidence , you will become better than yesterday.
Keep the feeling in mind when you see the chopsticks at your 33 year old, Try to correct it, Until you’ve got to take the plunge to do something you’ve never done. Don't care the result after you try. It won't be regret after you do.
不要害怕說話，雖然會結巴，但一個字一句話一個段落慢慢的說，久了總能說出口。說出自己的感受比傻笑來的有用，說出自己的想法比開玩笑重要。
不要害怕面對面，也不要害怕沒話講。要讓人感受到被重視，不能總是等待別人的回應，對方也是需要了解你的感受，才知道你是什麼人。
不要害怕展現自己，只要不炫耀不誇大，把自己認真生活每一天的結果，與人分享，那怕是一點點，也要很自信的表達出來，不需要害怕而隠藏。
不要害怕說出來的話不夠圓融，只求發自內心的關懷別人，和試著表達出自己最真實的感受，不做作，不矯情，只要誠實的描述，不需要裝飾，不需要效果。
不夠聰明，不夠帥，不夠錢，不夠幽默都沒關係，只要有自信一步步修正自己的缺點，都會比昨天的自己更好。
看到這把筷子時，時時提醒你這些事在你33歲時，試著修正它直到你鼓起勇氣去做你不曾做過的事，嘗試後就不要管結果是什麼，總比你不曾去做來的更好。
